Lets Get Ready For November!





Fall is a time to reflect on who we are, what we have and where we are going. God has blessed us with so much and November is a wonderful time to give back and give thanks!

It seems as though everyone is skipping right over the beautiful Fall season and heading right in to December and Christmas! Lets enjoy all that Autumn has to offer!!

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The Work


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The big bomb that is being dropped on you today is……

Relationships are NOT work. We are the work. It takes two to create a relationship. It takes two to make a relationship work. When we began to self-evaluate, identify with where we are in our lives and communicate it, we can enjoy long-lasting, happy relationships.

We must continue to work on ourselves. Evolution is inevitable. Various experiences cause us to change. Therefore it’s imperative to check ourselves to define what causes us to act and react the way we do!

We are the WORK!

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Share A Blanket Warm A Heart!

I’m excited to be launching a new campaign that will bring lots of warmth and joy to many homeless individuals. Information is below!!





As the soft breeze blows the colorful leaves to the ground, we are all reminded of the brisk cool and chilly days ahead.

This year I would love to launch Share A Blanket Warm A Heart to cover as many homeless men, women and children as possible.

I’m collecting clean, gently used blankets and throws from family friends and hotels,

Thank You!

Rashika Roberts


Maintaining A Healthy Relationship When Negativity Seems To Be Overtaking Media and Social Media


It’s very easy to become angry and frustrated by all that is happening. When this happens, one tends to lash out or struggle with controlling inner feelings and emotions.

Remember, it is okay to disconnect for a while to regroup. That doesn’t mean that you are totally ignoring what is happening. But you owe yourself the opportunity to re-center and be happy. The negative energy that stems from negative news has a way of oozing from you and onto everyone around you.

When you disconnect, try meditation, jazz, excersizing, yoga, prayer, get plenty of rest and spend lots of quality time with your mate, spouse, friends and family. And for the duration of that time, don’t talk about what’s happening and when others talk about it, don’t share in the conversation. Fully disconnect.

The mind is extremely powerful. But remember, you can control it. What you take into it, will determine what comes out.

Sometimes couples don’t always agree with what is happening, that’s okay. You are both entitled to your own opinions and have the right to express what you feel. Remember, though, it’s all about how you do it. Have respect and keep and open mind. That doesn’t mean you are agreeing. That means that you love your spouse or mate and you care about their feelings.

It’s natural for your spouse to want to vent about what they dislike. It’s also natural to get upset if you don’t agree. The best things to do in this situation is  to remain quiet, calm, be attentive and simply respond with I respect the way you feel. However, honey, I don’t agree. Everyone wants to be heard and having the opportunity to express yourself is a great way to get it out and move on. It’s imperative to keep the energy positive and move forward

Evolution is inevitable. However, you don’t want negative experiences to impact how you are evolving individually because it will have an impact on your relationships. Things are going to continue to happen in our world and we aren’t going to like nor agree with everything. But how we decide to deal with it will determine the overall outcome.


Gold Digging vs. Goal Digging


I’m a little surprised that in 2017 women are still judging women who enjoy relationships with wealthier men. Women are making just as much money and bringing just as many assets into relationships as men are.  Unfortunately, when a man chooses a wealthier woman, the silly title for that is opportunists.

It’s time that we forget the petty titles and began to focus our attention on our own relationships and do more self-evaluating to discover what it is that makes us so concerned with others choices.  How and whom someone decides to commit themselves to has little to nothing to do with outsiders and haters. Every relationship has value and should be respected as such!

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Expect The Unexpected



Walking down the isle is the beginning of a journey and the end of the roses and white doves gliding over the sea of emotions that rush from you as you partake in a moment of perfection.

A wedding is such a beautiful experience that should be cherished forever. However, the planning can really test your ability to remain human. The highs and lows of striving for perfection is trying. When it’s all over the calmness that drapes you, is as peaceful as a sleeping baby after breastfeeding.

Time usually awakens”reality.” You now will see each other every day. He will leave the toilet seat up and you will fall in half asleep. She will forget that you are allergic to feta after making you the best salad and dressing it with beautifully placed strawberries and balsamic vinaigrette. He will get a new position that requires him to work and travel more. She will ask you questions while you watch the game.

Yep, evolution has a way of ripping right through your perfectly imperfect relationship. Remember, you are on a journey together. The two of you should only be focusing on creating a more refined you to enhance the quality of your relationship. The only perfect day that you will get is the wedding day! Let go of the expectations and expect the unexpected!

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